spartacus
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I hate this any time I pass incredibly hot women that I'm into I can't make eye contact. Anyone else I'm totally not shy at all. This is bullshit!
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intrepid_kiss
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Is a good point, M.
Really people that leave who their with for a better option will tend to do that in any relationship.
That's not always the case. But frequently, it is.
And don't lie to me. I know you target them. Seek and destroy.. I know your game... ;)
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spartacus
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If a guy can take your girl, then she wasn't really devoted to you in the first place, and you're probably better off.
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Artsitis
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people happy in relationships are not likely to falter - but then, someone who will leave a relationship to be with you probably aren't in the right frame of mind or point int heir lives to be a good long term companion either
and I suck at initiating contact with people I'm attracted to in the real ...
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intrepid_kiss
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I'm one of those quirky types that doesn't have a problem with the boyfriend or whathaveyou sleeping with someone else. As long as I trust the guy. And as long as it's just sex/no emotional. And it's in the open. And the other person is clean.
No guy has EVER taken me up on that. Go figure. ...
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Artsitis
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did I ask you to marry me already?
I'm not sure I'd take advantage of that either, but it fits my philosophy on relationships pretty well.
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spartacus
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why go for a girl if you want to sleep with other people lol.. seems kind of dumb to me
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Artsitis
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lol
you can have someone around that you always want to be with, and you have the freedom to be honest about being sexually attracted to other people...
I've been in open relationships before, and it's more about honesty than fucking other people. I've never actually taken advantage of that, because frankly, I already ...
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Mantwon
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bitches are all weak sauce
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spartacus
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I've always had the option to sleep with who ever... it's called being single lol. I'd prefer being with the right girl
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hd.40
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I love being a barstar
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Vassago
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I just have a problem starting up conversations with people that I've never really met in person before, but by the end of the night I'm rambling on like they're my long-lost buddy.
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intrepid_kiss
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[quote}why go for a girl if you want to sleep with other people lol.. seems kind of dumb to me [/quote]
Just because a person is in a relationship, he/she doesn't stop being sexually attracted to other people. Sexual attraction is a natural instinct.
It's actually more difficult for men to remain faithful than ...
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spartacus
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I honestly don't when I'm with the right girl ... it's go time haha. I figure if you're not into the person you're with then you're probably not a good match
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intrepid_kiss
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It's not like you're not attracted to the person you're in a relationship with.
You just understand that he/she is human and is attracted to other people as well as you.
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StaceyMck
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Ha ha ha what an interesting thread ;) I understand what you mean that you don't want to show how you feel to a complete stranger as many people can do with just a look. However, there is nothing more seductive than direct eye contact. If you get a good response, your quirky smile my be reciprocated. If you look ...
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StaceyMck
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Okay so the comment above is my response to the first page- just read the second page. LoL, wow. Clearly everyone has their own image of relationships, etc; therefore there isn't a right or wrong (technically speaking) way to have a relationship. Personally, wether its "allowed" or "open" or not, I could never consider sleeping with someone else while in ...
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spartacus
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I don't like showing any form of weakness I guess and showing that you like someone is taking a huge risk. I'd prefer to know them... I guess you could say I'm a good actor
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StaceyMck
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Ha ha yeah.. I guess. It almost just adds more complications, no? If I like someone, I'll let them know one way or another. If it's not mutual, wasn't meant to be. But yes- you do have to know them first, agreed.
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Lola
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I don't think there is anything wrong with showing someone you are physically attracted to them. Boosts most peoples self esteem.
I understand the weakness thing though.
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intrepid_kiss
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I've never cheated on a boyfriend. I don't condone cheating in any way. But the reason I think that it's wrong is that there is so much dishonesty with it.
Jealousy is a negative emotion. It isn't love. It's never a good thing. Jealousy is rooted in insecurity and only ever harms relationships.
I ...
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