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spartacus
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I hate this any time I pass incredibly hot women that I'm into I can't make eye contact. Anyone else I'm totally not shy at all. This is bullshit!
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spartacus
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BTW eye contact thing works AWESOME
When ever you guys notice a girl checking you out just look her in the eyes and stare back. I honestly wasn't expecting that kind of a response. I didn't go talk to them because I'm not into picking up bar chicks but it seriously works.
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Lola
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Anytime little budday, anytime
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spartacus
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there's no question though I'm still shy LOL Even if I know a girl likes me it's just how I am. Ever feel overwhelmed by someone elses reactions? I get like that around certain people. You can read them so incredibly well that it's hard to even make eye contact with them to hide that you know what they're thinking. ...
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Lola
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Yes, I definately know the feeling. Though I can over come it and play the confindence card. I usually end up with the reaction I want from that. So either way I get what I want... 
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spartacus
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I imagine one day when I find someone that intrigues me enough I'll do just that. I typically observe peoples behavior figuring them out and decide if they're worth getting to know. Usually my gut feeling about people is pretty accurate.
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Lola
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Yup mine too. I can be a con artist at times though...... sometimes when I know the person won't be in my life for long.... hard to explain but something I'm working on. I think I have a fear of letting people get to know me too well....
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spartacus
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From Lola:
Yup mine too. I can be a con artist at times though...... sometimes when I know the person won't be in my life for long.... hard to explain but something I'm working on. I think I have a fear of letting people get to know me too well....
Attatchment disorder is quite common with ...
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intrepid_kiss
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I think most everyone hides important things about themselves that they are uncomfortable sharing. I think, for me, atleast, that the 'right' person is the person that I don't feel the need to hide those things anymore.
I try to be as open and honest as I can be. Often times, however, I have to mislead people ...
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Lola
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Both good points. It's not that I'm unaffectionate though, I'm just not all there. I definately have trust issues. It's my biggest default in a realtionship and I don't know how to over come except by time.
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Eagle_C6
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who hurt you?
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Lola
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That's pretty deep to get into. I've always had a hard trusting people because I've always been screwed around with since I was a kid. Realtionship wise my ex fiance did quite the job, and my last boyfriend, who I only dated for 3 months.
Right now I pretty much give anyone my trust, to begin with. ...
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Eagle_C6
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so these guys were banging other women while you were in a relationship or engaged?
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Lola
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No my fiance wasn't, my ex boyfriend claims to this day he wasn't, and we broke up at the beginning of Dec. but that ones iffy and a long story.
I don't think I would have problem with a boyfriend sleeping with anyone else as long as it was discussed and agreed on, no sneaking around and ...
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Eagle_C6
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From Lola:
I don't think I would have problem with a boyfriend sleeping with anyone else
How does this work, honey I think I want to bang Jenny, is that Ok?
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minuteZERO
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that's a toughie. i think i'm in the same boat. when my relationship with my now-wife started to grow was when i really, truly trusted her. i realized i just have to contribute the best i can to the relationship, and the rest is out of my control.
i'm still insecure at times, but i find my ...
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Eagle_C6
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I fully tust my wife and do not worry about her cheating, she is not the average woman though.
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minuteZERO
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have you only slept with other women with her?
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Eagle_C6
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no, I was dumb in the past and have fucked around on her. I try not to do that now though. I really want her to be happy.
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Lola
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From Eagle_C6:From Lola:
I don't think I would have problem with a boyfriend sleeping with anyone else
How does this work, honey I think I want to bang Jenny, is that Ok?
Something like that. If the realtionship wasn't brand new or anything and trust was there. If ...
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