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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
now that im sober, i've had some time to realize that i dont think i am at all interested.
back to the drawing board.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
Aren't you supposed to be steering clear of female-shaped things right now anyways?
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shank
Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
no, why should i?
it's not like im trying to look for someone to move in with me again or anything. just someone to get to know and see how it works from there.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
Rebounds are supposed to be bad, no?
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shank
Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
im not looking for a rebound though lol
ive thought it through and i know i dont want a rebound. i just want the opportunity to meet new women to GET TO KNOW BETTER. not to go fuck and try to be with.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
Ladies are scandalous, though.
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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
I've noticed that. it's probably because there are so many players arent there. they are retaliating or something.
it's getting rather fucking immature, im ready for someone to settle down with.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
It's all about the sort of lady you choose. Be judgmental. And picky. Cause otherwise you wind up with people that do shitty things. I kind of go into relationships with the mindset that I want that person to be a good person. Whether it's involving me or someone else. If they have the capacity to be cruel to one ...
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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
well, it took around 4 years for me and my ex to start dating and she is actually one of THEE nicest girls you will ever meet. which is why i am so absolutely stunned by her actions. it saddens me deeply.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
She can't be that nice. Nice people don't do things like that. :| Friendly and outgoing and bubbly do not necessarily indicate nice.
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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
well she WAS nice. I dont understand what happened.
maybe she got bi-polar or something? who the fuck knows.
maybe she was just friendly, outgoing and bubbly
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Mindy
User
606 Posts
Well, this is going to be a gross generalization, but girls who dress and pose for pictures like THAT aren't looking to settle down.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
I think you can judge whether a person is a good person by how concerned they are about other people. Not just people they know, but people they don't know.
And I didn't want to be the one to say it, Mindy. Heh.
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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
the girl in the picture isnt even the one im talking about. and i dont know her well enough anyways so i wasnt even planning on her being someone to settle down with.
my ex did/does care about people alot. it's too hard to explain.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
Yea. But I bet your ex has pictures where she's dressed and posed similar, doesn't she? Heh.
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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
what does that have to do with how she acts?
she's usually never dressed provocatively.
other than this one, which i asked her to do.

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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
Understanding females as I do, I can just say that you can quite frequently look at a girl and determine whether she's someone who will settle down. Not always, but for the most part. She looks like someone who would not settle down. It's judgmental, I know.
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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
well she shouldnt have lied about it then. she shouldnt have shown me "love" and accepted my proposal.
I can read girls fairly well, but at the same time i can be naive or lose my train of thought because of distraction from the female.
she was quite immature though, i just lead myself to believe it'll be ...
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
You're right. But people do shitty things. And quite often people say they feel things they don't feel. Or believe they feel things and feel differently later.
It's terribly easy to lose objectivity in those kind of situations. In fact, it's impossible to maintain it.
I'm sure there is always some guy that's willing to put up with ...
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Johny Handsome
2935 Posts
well i hope im not fucking 30 when i find it.
i only get one life to experience a REAL life, as known by most humans today.
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intrepid_kiss
Scandalous Bitch
1743 Posts
I'm sure you'll find someone before your thirty. Just be cautious about who you trust. Most people are shitheads.
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